So when someone has attachment and/or abandonment issues what do they need to do? What should the therapist be doing? Not doing?
Should I be 'attached' to you? What should 'feeling/doing better' look like? Will I always have this maternal need and will it always play out in me trying to attach to others? Or is that 'feeling' better looks like?
How does it play out with you?The hug
Some days I think my attachment defines me, or takes over my head, my thoughts. Right now it's L, but I'm sure it won't be long til you take L's place.
Did knowing more about L and her life make my attachment even deeper?