Is it possible it's not L who has changed, but me? And is that change for the better and does that scare me? I had a quick flash back to my former therapist. The one who totally crushed me for years when she decided to stop seeing me. Someday I'll post about that. I sent her a letter asking for her to explain to me why she terminated me and in that letter I asked her if she was acting like a mother bird and pushing her baby bird out of the nest. And if that was the reason, then it totally sucked and she was wrong (didn't quite word it that way).
So is L not doing certain things because she doesn't think I need them anymore?