tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post5281250740234082966..comments2023-04-09T05:50:24.227-04:00Comments on Normal Was Not My Goal: NormalWasNotMyGoalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-15513709285292921402013-03-22T12:50:49.506-04:002013-03-22T12:50:49.506-04:00The first thought that popped into my mind was: wh...The first thought that popped into my mind was: who does she remind you of? Who hasn't heard you in the past? Who have you tried to reach, but they weren't responding back?<br /><br />I've done the same with Daisy - and even recently. I get angry that she hasn't returned my call, when I think that she should've.<br /><br />One time that sticks out, when I felt like I needed her the most (and she didn't return my call - and a message I left for her), I remember talking about it. She bluntly said that I didn't ask her to call me back - and she wasn't sure if she should. And so she didn't. More recently, I left a message on her machine and asked that she call me back, and she did. I realized that I needed to ask for what I want - because she cannot read my mind. Even though we see them as superheros, they are just normal people. Just as we don't always know how to respond to others, they don't either.<br /><br />Ask her to respond, let her know that you are in need of that. Perhaps it will help. Perhaps she doesn't know what you're in need of. Don't be afraid to speak up and tell her what you need - I know she will be receptive to it.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05166689236909570817noreply@blogger.com