tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post4523473396779417680..comments2023-04-09T05:50:24.227-04:00Comments on Normal Was Not My Goal: NormalWasNotMyGoalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-2342263912677106762012-02-10T05:35:11.020-05:002012-02-10T05:35:11.020-05:00I knew my ears were burning for a reason!!! And o...I knew my ears were burning for a reason!!! And of course I don't mind that the post was able to help you talk about some things with Daisy.<br />It's really hard to judge anyone's relationship with anyone else unless you're 'in the room' with them, especially with therapy; it's such an unusual dance. Thanks for understanding and supporting....as always!NormalWasNotMyGoalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-7701425902928533282012-02-09T16:10:40.852-05:002012-02-09T16:10:40.852-05:00:0) I'm off to school at the moment, but decid...:0) I'm off to school at the moment, but decided to stop in to explain a bit! What you wrote about, especially your last sentence struck me and made me think. You know where I've been and where I'm struggling in this therapy relationship of mine! And then I thought ... it is not okay for me to give you advice, to try and convince you to feel one way about what L has offered and how she's helped, etc ... because there was a point (many times really) that Aster and others questioned the boundaries and dynamic Daisy and I had. And it hurt a lot. I couldn't figure out what was real and what wasn't. I don't disagree with anything you wrote and don't feel one way or the other about this for you (other than wanting what is best for you), but I don't know what that is. <br /><br />I spoke to Daisy today about your post (I hope you don't mind) and really went off in all types of different stories - from graduations and weddings to visiting her home. It was tough. I'll write a post about it tonight.<br /><br />This seems to have turned a bit from what I really wanted to say, which is simply: Good for you - for doing what you feel is right! Talk soon, eh?Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05166689236909570817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-23918990596156555122012-02-08T20:51:04.518-05:002012-02-08T20:51:04.518-05:00Oh come on Mandy you're killing me!!Oh come on Mandy you're killing me!!NormalWasNotMyGoalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-27784278213667747352012-02-08T17:24:09.858-05:002012-02-08T17:24:09.858-05:00This post strikes a lot in me - and I don't ha...This post strikes a lot in me - and I don't have words at the moment. (Perhaps I'll blog about it later) I did want to say though that I am so glad that you got the courage to speak with her about it. Good for you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com