tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post2879012007890749910..comments2023-04-09T05:50:24.227-04:00Comments on Normal Was Not My Goal: NormalWasNotMyGoalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-14868494390379643512011-11-29T17:05:53.674-05:002011-11-29T17:05:53.674-05:00Thanks OBD. I am trying to push myself into talki...Thanks OBD. I am trying to push myself into talking more about it with her, and she is pushing me too. For the first time in a long time we talked on the phone a little while ago. Normally if I need to connect with her I send a short text, but this time I put my big girl pants on and talked.NormalWasNotMyGoalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-81873368565927715932011-11-29T16:25:00.365-05:002011-11-29T16:25:00.365-05:00i can really relate to this. i struggle with the s...i can really relate to this. i struggle with the same dynamic, the feeling vulnerable yet needing my therapist tug of war (always asking myself do i need her too much). i think what helped for me was hearing from her that she was as attached to me as i was to her. that we were equals. that her questions to me emerged from what i had shared. i think the more you talk about this with her, the greater resolution you will find.catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16780313741320002109noreply@blogger.com