tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post1720651339116634423..comments2023-04-09T05:50:24.227-04:00Comments on Normal Was Not My Goal: NormalWasNotMyGoalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-7065204671988933392011-12-22T10:39:33.138-05:002011-12-22T10:39:33.138-05:00lostinamaze I think part of my reason for writing ...lostinamaze I think part of my reason for writing in my blog about ex-t C was so others would know that it's definitely possible to get past a heart-wrenching termination. <br />Since ending with C I've gone through 5 different therapists before finding L. And yes, thank goodness I did, but it wasn't easy. And I think if I was more honest with myself I probably could have made it a little easier. In my gut I knew what I was looking for but I didn't keep pushing myself, instead I just kept hoping I would feel better.<br />Some day I'll probably write a bit more about my life-in-therapy and all the twists and turns. But please know you can 'get better', but listen to your head, heart, and keep pushing.<br />Being with L is hard, but I'm making progress, and then heartache from ex-T does not have the same hold over me as it once did.<br />Good lucjNormalWasNotMyGoalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-12349191839842051702011-12-22T00:50:20.909-05:002011-12-22T00:50:20.909-05:00Reading this confirms to me that I won't be ab...Reading this confirms to me that I won't be able to shake my former t for a long, long time. I seem to think about her and our ending all the time even though it's been eight months now since I last saw her. Yah, the hurt. I think it's awesome that you have L and her support.lostinamazehttp://inamaze.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-11388846676994521152011-12-20T15:28:50.805-05:002011-12-20T15:28:50.805-05:00Thanks Polar Bear, and you're right, I am luck...Thanks Polar Bear, and you're right, I am lucky to have L she really is amazing (and I don't mean it in a she's-on-a-pedestal kind of way) I talked to her today about sending C the card, and she was so funny, right in the middle of me telling her she stopped me and said 'For the record, I would always look forward to receiving a card from you, so if you're ever in doubt, you don't have to be with me'<br /><br />I hope you're doing ok PB.NormalWasNotMyGoalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-79082614684063053292011-12-20T14:26:21.275-05:002011-12-20T14:26:21.275-05:00You are lucky to have L now. But I can understand...You are lucky to have L now. But I can understand your feelings for C. Secretly, I think I also wish that someday V will want to sit down with me to work things out. But that will never happen of course. I guess the hurt will always be there.Polar Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09042280087446534146noreply@blogger.com