tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post1709834549258871360..comments2023-04-09T05:50:24.227-04:00Comments on Normal Was Not My Goal: NormalWasNotMyGoalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-41870206375772694322012-01-27T00:31:51.271-05:002012-01-27T00:31:51.271-05:00I like it! I'm thinking peanut butter should b...I like it! I'm thinking peanut butter should be involved somehow!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05166689236909570817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-30163460708190641922012-01-26T05:55:48.719-05:002012-01-26T05:55:48.719-05:00Ellen I think you're absolutely right about hr...Ellen I think you're absolutely right about hre responding to the 'selfish' part and not the 'ache' part. Thanks, it really got me thinking. I'm so passive-aggressive, I have a hard time asking for what I want.<br /><br />Not weird at all Amanda, much appreciated. Maybe we can come up with some sort of sundae called 'Hugs'?!!NormalWasNotMyGoalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14687479883199918652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-84025504491178483452012-01-26T00:23:15.124-05:002012-01-26T00:23:15.124-05:00I'm so glad that you were able to stay "t...I'm so glad that you were able to stay "there" during your session. You know, I struggle so much with the dynamic she and I have ... so have no particular thoughts from me. I can understand the text she sent back not quite being "right". If I were you, I would've wanted more. I would've wanted her to say something different. Sometimes just getting it out there and then sitting with it for a bit, helps. And I hope things fall into place soon for you, although I'm thinking that it might continue to be a continuous struggle.<br /><br />Sending you several hugs (hope that's not weird)!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05166689236909570817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1946316417074826415.post-24420717262618372402012-01-25T17:56:00.595-05:002012-01-25T17:56:00.595-05:00It really seems like a very tricky dynamic between...It really seems like a very tricky dynamic between the three of you. I know I have huge issues sharing my T with a group of other clients. <br /><br />Maybe with the text, you were needing to hear 'I'm sorry for the ache...' or some such, and instead L responded to the 'selfish' part of it. Just a thought. take careEllenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15741118126298552722noreply@blogger.com